“Men are all the same.” Haaa. I have to disagree with that statement. Let’s face it girls. It’s a ridiculous phrase. It’s useful too. No offense, but the girl that says that, is the same girl who wants the same guy over and over again. It doesn’t matter how bad they are. They will go for the same guy and say the same thing. Give me a break. Stop it. Guys aren’t the same. Maybe you’re not looking for the right ones. Maybe not the right place? Well the point isn’t that. The point is, no one is the same. No one. The End. No more discussion. It’s over. You lost. Sorry but it’s true!
A lot of girls WANT the same: a perfect guy that won’t cheat, that won’t bitch, that will give them the things she want, that is sensitive, that is… blah blah blah. It goes on. I get it. You want everything your way. But that’s alright. It’s the way society is. That’s the problem. Why? Who said it is supposed to be this way? Someone did. Mistake. Cause now everyone does the same thing and it is irritating. It’s like no one is doing what they wanna do because society won’t accept it. Obnoxious. It’s wrong. It needs to stop. Why want the same? Why be the same? Why act the same? Why? When you can be different. When there’s so much out there that is different. Why not give a chance to a different guy? Needs to be the same doesn’t it? The way society is again. You see, the way I look at it… Everyone is actually very different. Not just physically different: hair, eyes, color, etc. But we all act different. There’s many reasons involved in that. We all live in different environments. We all live with different people and different friends. And most important of them all, we all have been through different situations and different experiences. For that reason, we should accept the “different.” We should be O.K with it. We shouldn’t be judging it either. Look inside yourself. Think. Don’t you wish you could do something, but you can’t because people think you’re weird, or tings like that? Shouldn’t you be able to do that? Shouldn’t everyone be able to do whatever they want to do? Whatever they feel makes them happy? This goes for girls specially. They don’t want to choose the other guy because their friends won’t like him. Because he won’t fit it. Stop it. STOP.
Girls are complicated. I’m a guy and I know they can be so hard to get. Just like guys are. Girls don’t understand that guys also make mistakes. Take me as an example. I have made so many mistakes. Including when it comes to girls. Let me fix that. SPECIALLY when it comes to girls. I’ve said the same tings to two girls at the same time. I have flirted with other girls when I was in a relationship. I admit it. There. I’ve done horrible things to girls. I get it. I do. But what girls don’t believe in is the fact that people change. I’ve changed. Oh boy have I changed. My idea of girls changed. I don’t do what I did before. I learned. Like most guys do… Maybe after a lot of hurtful experiences. But we all change. The problem is society again. For some dumb reason, society made us believe that people don’t change. It made us not want to give others a second chance. See everything starts with society. Every problem we have is because of society and what society think about it. Think about it. It all makes sense. One more time. People do change. We just don’t want to see it. Now, I’m not saying: give another chance to the guy who cheated on you. NO. that’s wrong. If you do, then you have no self-respect. Get some. Then read this again. Sorry. All I’m saying is, again, people do make mistakes. You make them too. Don’t be ashamed of them. Be happy you made mistakes so you could fix it. Let’s get real now. No one is the same. Everyone is different.
